Problem solving

While fertility problems brings its own worries and anxieties and these may take time to resolve, you can tackle some of the worries and anxieties so you reduce the load. Take time to adopt a problem solving approach to worries and anxiety.

  1. Identify what you are worried or anxious about – exactly – and write it down
  2. Think about, and write down some things that might counteract or provide solutions to your worry or anxiety and will help it to lessen or go away
  3. Go through each of the solutions and evaluate them:
    • What will make the solution work?
    • What will stop it from working?
    • Will it really help? 
    • What do you need to do to make the solution work?
    • Is that do-able?
    • Will the solution last long enough for you to feel better?
  4. Pick the most appropriate solution
  5. Plan how you can make this solution work
  6. Take some action and try the solution
  7. Review how well the solution worked
  8. Has your worry or anxiety gone away or reduced?
  9. If not, choose another appropriate solution and see if that helps

Sometimes you may not be able to eliminate the worry or anxiety completely, but you may have some strategies to reduce it.

It can also be helpful to talk over these steps with someone whose opinion you value and trust. An objective point of view about options can make a big difference.


Created on 29/08/2013 | Updated on 01/12/2015
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